Valentine’s Day After Divorce

Valentine’s Day may be a meaningful day filled with lots of romantic memories. For others, this day can be a painful souvenir of loss and loneliness. Spending Valentine’s Day as a divorcee can be challenging for most. In the United States, upwards of 40% of marriages end in divorce. It’s important to remember that you are not alone.

Here are a few things you can do this week to make Valentine’s Day a little Easier:

will you be my (1).png — **Buy yourself something**A little retail therapy never hurts. Treat yourself to a nice meal that you wouldn’t ordinarily get, or maybe have a spa day. Pampering yourself can be a great way to kick off a time where you focus on yourself instead of others.Spend the day with your other loved onesYou don’t have to find romance to have a good time. You can go out with a group of friends, or even your kids. Dress up and celebrate your loved ones and the people that still maintain a positive presence in your life.Avoid social mediaSocial media plays a pivotal role in our society *(it can even be used as evidence in divorce cases)*. Although social media is a great way of sharing your personal life, it is often best to avoid it on Valentine’s Day.It is very likely that your newsfeed will be overrun with photos of flowers, chocolates, and proposals. It is often difficult for most individuals to see these reminders of happiness and romance following a divorce.Treat it like a regular dayIf none of the other options appeal to you, treat February 14th like another regular day. Distraction is often the best coping mechanism.

It is important to remember that divorce is a transition. Some wounds take longer to heal than others. Don’t let this commercialized holiday have an adverse effect on your happiness.

The team at The Louisiana Family Law Firm is dedicated to providing you with everything you need to make informed legal decisions. Whether you require assistance with a divorce or an adoption, we are here to help. Contact us today for an opportunity to discuss your legal issue.

Darby Mann

Valentine’s Day After Divorce

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